The auspices of: the following dialog you familiar?
"Mom, you Come see, What is this?"
"Do not long-winded, not fast food!"
"Oh, the milk."
"How do you always awkward, and not achieve anything, walk away fast!"
"You climb, you have that capability and then climb to the point ... I see ..."
These dialogues between parents and children from day-to-day conversation. Conversation is essential to family life in a content of family education is an important means indispensable, and how to talk with their children, but it is an art and science. Studies have shown that parents talk with their children in different ways, since they do not like the education of children is not the same as the impact of development. Therefore, we will be "the art of conversation with their children" as the theme of the current discussion of tea, the panel of parents, there are many good experiences to you.
Point of view (a) willing to take the time to talk with their children
I feel that parents talk with their children no matter what, we should first spend time with their children to talk through the conversation we can not only keep abreast of children's ideas and the performance of, or carrying out some of our requirements, but also promote children's intellectual development. 1-year-old daughter, I have formed the habit of beginning of each day and take the time to talk to her habit of listening to the story to talk about the past, talk about things to see during the day, or even to talk about the main character in the drama. I told her all sorts of problems, to see whether she will be reflected in the East and West, and now her daughter is good in all aspects of development, I think this is the conversation between us has a great deal.
Point of view (b) the patience of the audience when the child
Next day the son returned home from kindergarten, I have to ask what he pleased, or there will not be any thing, let him talk about the knowledge in the kindergarten, regardless of what the children say, I have listened carefully to show the way let him feel that I like listening to him in order to stimulate their desire to express. I think that is always listening and linked, it is necessary to master the art of conversation with their children, we must be patient and when the child audience, the endless talk about the child, the parents can understand his true ideas, in his response to a excuse the matter, we can find the real cause of things, to facilitate persuasion and education. Therefore, when talking to children, parents should not focus only on their own to say, but we should pay attention to what their children listen to that.
Point of view (c) conversation should be targeted, according to local conditions
I think it necessary to have a conversation with the children targeted, content and manner of talk should be based on the characteristics of children, targeted, according to local conditions. For example, the spring to the park to play, children can talk about flowers and trees to germinate knowledge. Walking by the roadside in autumn, you can talk with their children falling leaves,truth. The moon at night and talk about the topic of children, summer children's knowledge about the sun. This is due to vary from place to place when the targeted conversations, in addition, also according to the child's interest and emotional state at that time as well as the characteristics of things such as their own to choose a different way of talking. My experience made me realize that conversation with their children more targeted to the children the impression that the deeper sense of the conversation