Parents hits the child to often be stemmed from temporarily actuation, did not pass mostly cogitative, but if often hit the child, can cause the serious consequence that cannot make up for, make the child produces undesirable state of mind and psychological deviation. Children psychology doctor thinks, the child that often takes a beating, can appear a few more the following undesirable state of mind and psychological deviation.

One, lying

Once some parents discover child err issue " hit " . The child to avoid " the suffering of flesh " , begin to lie, after be being discovered by parents, hit againer likely, so the next time the child dare not tell the truth more. Create vicious circle so.

2, cowardly if the child often endures parents beat and scold, the child can produce fear and alienation to parents from the heart, wish to not be willing in the heart no matter, not dare the command of defy parents, have darling obedience only. Grown child leaves in such environment, often meet absolutely obedient, spirit is depressive, also meet on study in the future very passive.

3, alone

The child that often takes a beating can feel proper pride is harmed, can doubt oneself ability, think oneself " inferior to others " , do not be willing to interact with the person. Disposition loneliness, silent.

4, obstinate

Parents hits the child easily, can make their generation opposes the mood is mixed go against turn over psychology, some children still can be used make trouble intentionally revolt in order to show, make parents angry on purpose. Some children are hit more do not acknowledge a mistake more, add more stubborn and obstinate, use even run away from home will defy with parents.

5, crude

Of the child imitate a gender very strong, parents is endured to hit in the home, to the outside he hits other child, compare his small child especially. Actually, parents hits the child is the effect that had a bad model.

6, overtly agree but covertly oppose

After some parents hit the child, extortionary still child " acknowledge a mistake " , the effect that teachs in order to examine. Such doing, can make child mind only " discharge him " tendency aggravate. He obviously in the heart not willing, but must janus-faced " acknowledge a mistake " , as time passes, make the child produced those who overtly agree but covertly oppose to make a group.