How does tone teach disposition weak child?

Disposition is characteristic of psychology of a kind of individual character, family member of independent character of be overcautious, lack, beyond the mark attaching, dare not talk before stranger etc is disposition weakness the child's most outstanding performance. Period is formed in disposition, the child shows the defect of disposition volition, parents should be caused take seriously and aid in time into v/arc trade association, guide. 　　

① lets the child learn the life, hold oneself. One of main reasons of the parent that monopolize replacing is weakness of case of child body by nature. A few parents are docile and obedient to the child, do not let the child do everything. This is equal to stripped the opportunity of child self-expression, brought about the atrophy of child independence viability.

② lets the child contact a companion, exercise oneself. Psychologist points out, the child's disposition is behaved most apparently in game and daily life, this also is the optimal way that corrects undesirable disposition. Love imitates the one big characteristic that is the child, the child that parents should let disposition is weak often is mixed audacious and brave young associate is together, make a few things that dare not do at ordinary times accordingly, be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears, get taking exercise slowly.

③ respects the child, what do not uncover the child in public is short. Opposite for, the child of disposition weakness is more indrawn, feeling is weaker, parents should notice to protect the child's proper pride especially. If uncover the child in public short, can injure the child's dignity, the undesirable stimulation of virtually but the weakness of aggrandizement child.

④ lets the child talk boldly. Want to accomplish this, kongfu still is on parental body. Above all, parents should impetuous of drop rapid drop, cannot beat and scold face to face, blame, press child talks; Next, can invite a few with age child and disposition soft weak participate in collective activity together, at this moment parents is in guide aside or flat and evasive, let them have a free unbridled language space. If the condition allows, parents returns the region that often can look after children to be widened to a few eye shot, space, encourage the child to put acoustical drain.