The care that the child needs
"If you love your child, ought to let go, give him a sky, make him experienced in grow with respect to him volant wing! Make him experienced in grow with respect to him volant wing!!
Common saying says, the world was not parents. Major parents is the children that shows loving care for his sincerely, especially now is a singleton female parent, but why the pains that present child is like to cannot understand parents more and more? Is the method that is parents incorrect? Be still the child gave an issue? The child becomes more and more mischievous and not obedient, hope he enjoys the wish that childhood happiness lives to the top of one's bent, and do not love to learn likely in the future school work not the anxious hour of beautiful impact outlook is contradictory my nerve. " they are some of intentional parents, often exchange the educational issue about the child with others, feel everybody has original method it seems that, but always want to find the method that suits him child most, but education is done not have really absolutely correct with the mistake, educational method also is because of the person different, because of the child different. The following guidance is taught in the family medium experience and results and all teachers and parents are shared, the development that hopes all children are happy.
1, exorbitant expectation, those who bring the child is all up.
Dear father mother do not want with " father mother is good for you " for go forcing the child, force sometimes child into dragon, dragon can become bug. So correct him assessment the child's ability and latent capacity, the target that imagines for children can let the child jump to get quite forever, communicate more with children, ask their idea and need, let children have more autonomy, in do not coerce his circumstance falls, encourage him to do its place to let what the child gets take exercise, the benefit that should get than be forced to let the child is more valuable, it is better that the effect also is met.
2, exceeding protection, those who bring the child is incompetent.
Won't pare egg, prodigy people won't live provide for oneself, the girl won't ego protection, actually we had heard these case very much, accordingly above all what our father mother should take seriously is the child provides for oneself the education of viability: The child that lets you " change " a bit common, a bit more ordinary, such doing is not to abuse the child, give the child a safe life space however. Had good body, the base that had security just has other ah! Want to put birdie to hover, should let them learn to fly above all be opposite? The child that how bears protection to pass so he can " fly " ?
3, exorbitant is doting, those who bring the child is merciless.
Many parents are satisfied indefinitely to demand of goods and materials, the mental demand to the child however very indifferently, because the parent always says: "I am busy make money, it is for you good condition lives " . But dear father mother, do you know? What children need is more company and consideration, mental thing compares material occasionally more commendable, when you make money busily, cause the child and spirit division to be not entered however, move toward the opposite even, the problem goes to go up in child body, is the root cause of illness or trouble probable on parental body? So, do you think such love is worth? Do you think the what that children want after all loves again?
4, overmuch interference, those who bring the child is helpless.
Love early for instance etc, learn to be communicated with the child, directive child masters the method that be communicated with the person and interacts correctly, the negative interference that hazy to the opposite sex to children feeling is opposite hourly namely, also want the consequence such as an impact study and child lay one's heart bare, the acceptance that makes children happy of the friend affable, face each problem in the life, solve and spend each difficulty, you can discover, you have an outstanding child! And the business with this kind of white specification, they return meeting curiosity must try? Say accordingly, when the child is beyond the mark and curious, the atmosphere that the interference that also may be you created more dug and mystery for them... .
5, censure too much, those who bring the child is not to have arrange.
To the child, be approved, the psychological demand that gets true opinion surpasses pair of money and recreational longing. Boast comes out good child, if you always tell the child, the child of others home how good, he is done so or become bad word in that way! He can think you do not love him, what does he do bad, why does he try hard even then that? Because did be a fault, you love other child.
Looking at those children that are kept constantly on the run as a child, dear father mother, what is what had you thought you want after all? The person should learn be willing to part with or use, cannot anxiously expect complete. The child is recreant do not have patience, a lot of moment are parental interference and be used to, on the road of child learning, what need most is not the educational inspector of teacher and parent, however audience however applause. Some things need not care in the life, can some of thing has to be in, that is the child love to you. The child's love gets reflecting, ability can produce clinking joy.
