Do not forget to do psychology to massage for the child

Elementary school was about to term begins formally, these days a lot of parents are in term begins for the child prepare, because the Spring Festival just passed, the psychology that most parent terms begins to the child adjusts had not caused enough take seriously. About education the expert points out, new term terms begins, the parent must be done for the study with child new investment " psychology is massaged " .

Because on one hand holiday life rhythm by transfer to insecurity flabbily, the child can become unwell.

Because Spring Festival holiday is apart from,leave opening time too close on the other hand, what bearer of the family member in the festival goes to is lively, the lax mood of children is couldn't get temporarily adjust, some can generate allergy or nauseous sentiment to learning even.

Coach according to teenage psychology psychological teacher of the center introduces, opening around coachs in the hotline with busy center, most is to seek advice " opening angst disease " student. The introvert student that this kind of phenomenon reachs 13 years old 14 years old at the age centrally more, and schoolgirl with 4 ∶ the scale of 1 over schoolboy. Analysing " opening angst disease " when the reason, psychological expert thinks, the psychological pressure that the reason that after term begins, does not wish to go to school is a student above all is great, expression learns the pressure of the pressure of the respect or human association oneself to come, these students sometimes to do not go to the school feign weighs collywobbles, headache etc; The self-abased psychology that is a student next is serious, because some learn the student with poorer grade, fear to face those who come from classmate and teacher " distain " look, produce self-abased psychology not to wish to go to school consequently; It is to some of student is gone against again turn over psychology strong, as a result of,be commonly very as little as the parent's communication and generation bunts the parent's circumstance; Finally, because adolescent psychology and physiology development produce love to the opposite sex,be, but the communication of lack and parents and the with the communication of the outside wrong even think of a way with incorrect generation bring about be disgusted with to learn.

Of the child " opening angst disease " much performance is the symptom such as insomnia, scared, pessimism. So how avoid and to how avoid and solve these problems? Coach psychological expert of the center reminds, "Opening angst disease " it is a very common psychology phenomenon. The psychological contrast of the children after holiday passes is big, if adjust carelessly,appear easily mood obstacle, but because child age is small after all, their oneself is controlled hard and adjust these problems, so the attention of the parent and teachers and help are indispensable. To the parent, should undertake synchronous communication is taught growing with the child appropriately, guide child successive ground correctly to get used to the life after term begins; And to the child, also want oneself to adjust good intention condition, want to hold active, upbeat mood when anything crops up, processing is good with the relation between classmate, teacher, show oneself advantage bravely, can overcome so " opening angst disease " .

Psychology teachs expert introduction, the parent adjusts to the child's psychology but from proceed with of a few respects:

It is the biological clock that adjusts time of work and rest, those who make synchronism of one life of Zhang Yuxue school " arrangement is expressed " , let the child " pour time difference " , put an end to sleep lie-in and treat the condition with excessive TV.

2 it is the merriment that shows coming study to the child, analyse the study characteristic of new term, be like can advise sb or explain sth by using one's own experience as an example is better.

3 it is to listen attentively to the child to be opposite patiently the idea of new term, timely and directive.

4 it is the study plan that discusses the child, parent and family jointly, form the domestic atmosphere of study.

5 it is to help the child get ready conciously term begins " profession " , check preparation together, create opening atmosphere jointly.